Broken relationship among Christians is not uncommon but can be resolved before it goes too complicated. Broken relationship saddens the heart too much, but today’s message will explain the causes and the best steps to reconciling a broken relationship.

7 Characteristics of Broken Relationship

1. Emotional distance and distress

2. Conflict

3. Unresolved issues that undermine the connection between individuals

4. Feelings of isolation, sadness, and anxiety

5. Noticeable communication breakdown

6. When dialogue becomes scarce or filled with tension

7. Loss of trust

Effects of Broken Relationship

1. Negative impact on your physical life

2. Your spiritual life can be hindered from smooth communication to God.

3. A fractured relationship may hinder one’s spiritual growth and ability to engage in communal worship.

4 Causes of Broken Relationship

Broken relationships, especially within the Christian faith, can often stem from various underlying issues:

1. Lack of Communication: Effective communication is fundamental in any relationship; when individuals fail to express their thoughts, feelings, or concerns, misunderstandings can arise. Proverbs 18:13 states, “To answer before listening—that is folly and shame.” This highlights the importance of active listening and open dialogue in maintaining healthy connections.

2. Differing values or life goals: When you and your partner in a relationship have divergent aspirations or moral beliefs, it can lead to significant discord. In 2 Corinthians 6:14, the scripture cautions against being “unequally yoked,” emphasizing the importance of shared values in fostering unity. This divergence can create an environment where your partner feels alienated from you, ultimately resulting in a breakdown of the relationship.

3. Unresolved conflicts also play a critical role in the deterioration of relationships. Failures to address grievances can lead to resentment and bitterness. Ephesians 4:26 advises, “In your anger, do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.” This scriptural guidance underscores the necessity of promptly confronting issues to prevent the escalation of conflict.

4. Adversities such as stressful life events, be it job loss, health issues, or family crises, can strain your relationship.

  8 Ways to Reconcile Broken Relationship

Reconciliation in relationships, particularly among Christians, is a deeply valued principle rooted in biblical teachings. The journey towards healing and restored connections can be navigated through a series of intentional steps. Here are ten actionable strategies that you can apply to mend broken relationships.

1. Seek Forgiveness: This foundational step involves acknowledging your own mistakes and genuinely asking for forgiveness from the affected party.

Jesus Christ says: “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” (Matthew chapter 6 verse 14)

2. Practicing humility is vital: When you approach a reconciliatory process with a humble heart, it fosters an atmosphere conducive to healing.

3. Engage in open communication: It is essential to express thoughts and feelings honestly while allowing the other person to share theirs as well.

Taking time to listen actively demonstrates respect and commitment to understanding the other’s perspective and the broken relationship can be mended easily.

4. Showing love and compassion is essential: Small acts of kindness can significantly foster a sense of goodwill and soften hearts.

5. Create a prayerful environment: Inviting GOD into the reconciliation process can yield transformative results, guiding both you and your partner towards mutual understanding and peace.

6. Self-reflection: Submitting yourself to the counsel of the Holy Spirit and assessing your behaviors and the contribution to the relationship can be enlightening and promote your personal growth.

7. Engaging a third-party mediator such as a true servant of GOD can provide an objective view and facilitate constructive conversations.

8. Focus on rebuilding trust: This will require consistent effort, patience, and openness, allowing time for the relationship to heal.

Jesus says: “Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him about his fault between you and him alone. If he hears you, you have gained your brother.”

“But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that ‘by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.”

“And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church. But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector.” (Matthew 18: 15-17)

Finally, broken relationship can be resolved if you adhere to these biblical principles. So, your Christian stamina can journey towards reconciliation, fostering stronger and healthier relationships grounded in faith.